There are no words; none suffice,
None that may cover or explain
None that express the loss of a love
Or help to heal the pain
Anything that we might say,
Anything we try to do,
It all falls short, next to the grief,
And only the grief shows through
When someone has lost someone,
A lover, family, pet, or friend,
Not single word we can speak
That will put them on the mend
No expression of condolence helps;
Our feeble efforts don’t stop the pain
The only thing that’s somehow worse
Is if we say nothing at all
In times of loss and grief, we are
Of little use to those we hold dear
It’s best that we assume as much
And say only, “I am here”
Hope not that your speech is helpful;
Know that we hold no such power
Say only “I am here with you,
In this, your darkest hour.”
The most we might do for a friend
Who is suffering from a broken heart
Is to demonstrate respect by saying,
“I don’t even know where to start”
Offer humility and say, “I can only
Imagine the terrible weight of your pain
I can do nothing but be here for you,
And for you, here, I will remain”
©2021 Kevin Trent Boswell
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